Make and keep yourself your top priority. It’s the proper order of things.
One’s inner work helps others more than anything else one could do for others.
What you have for Other outwardly is an offering. Don’t attach to what they do with it. Compassionate Non-attachment.
Just be the truest version of your True Self that you can muster in any given moment… no matter who may or may not be watching. Set the example.
And yes, the extremes of light and dark are / will be more pronounced. Eventually folks won’t help but notice.
People need to reach “Enough already!” before they will change. Different levels for different people.
All in Divine and Perfect Timing.
Yes, subconscious programming is part of one’s “shadow side”, one’s hidden aspects and yes, at a young age, we are “highly programmable”. Great design as long as our “teachers” know they are teaching us and what. But they – parents, teachers, preachers, and others who love you – have also been programmed and just pass on the programming. Get one generation of people to take on a new program and they’ll pass on the dysfunctional, disempowering programs to the next generation. Inaccurate associations are made at the subconscious level at a young age and they stick.
The “shadow” must be “brought to light” – the subconscious realized at a conscious level… and reprogrammed (the easy part really, at that point) to a more healthy state. Once you’ve gotten the old program out of the subconscious, then, yes, plant what you’d like. The garden is a great analogy!
“We are here to experience ascension, expansion, joy, happiness, fulfillment, and freedom.” We naturally ARE these things, we just have to unbury our True Selves from under the crap heap… of disempowering programs. Yes, indeed, release what is not us.
(note: to get some direction on how to very quickly and easily release old subconscious programs, see “Core Issues / Wounds / Programs / Fears / Beliefs” post)
“The Pleiadean’s refer to us as “system busters.” ”
Sounds specifically like Barbara Marciniak’s Ps. Yes, the systems buster thing resonated with me so much that years ago I had business cards made up that just had my name and email. The background was a sci-fi-ish scene of a planet’s surface with another huge planet and a moon in the distance. I had on it:
Renegade member of the Family of Light. Systems Buster. Available for altering systems of consciousness within the Free Will Universe. On call.
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We create through our Thoughts, Words and Deeds. With that in mind, your reputation is what others think of you while your character is what you think of you. Yep, what others think of you is none of your business. Their thoughts don’t determine your life and reality, yours do. Don’t give authority of your life away by “worrying what the neighbors will think” even when, more often than not, you aren’t even on their mind at all anyway, but you can still give authority of your life away to them, when they don’t even want it.
But yeah, an honest self assessment serves you and others also. Ya can attempt to fool others (probably aren’t though) but no matter where you go, there you are. Can’t run from yourself.
And… this IS the Apocalypse after all – “uncovering / revealing”. No one is immune from the exposure the Increasing Light brings.
Knowing what’s “yours” and what’s “other’s” is a big part of Self Sovereignty.
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I speak in plain and simple English (along with forgetting more than most people even know). I like to take the mystery out of the mystery. And it’s not within my Power and hence is not my Responsibility to learn for others. I just point them there and provide search terms… out of Compassionate Non-Attachment.
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LOVE ME SOME ALANIS! I remember the periods in time through my life when SHE sang through my own soul (or my soul sang through her lyrics…)
LOVE ALANIS!
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I love Alanis, she is very talented, and saw her in a couple tv shows or was it a tv show ‘Sex and the City’ and I think it was a movie where she was some sort of Goddess…anyway…love her songs!
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She was good in Weeds too.
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I loved that series Weeds. They always cancel the good ones, leaving us all up in the air but the bad ones just keep going. The only series they ended, and we got closure was Medium. That lady really did work for our Distict Attorney in Phoenix, AZ. I wonder what she is doing these days, but think I heard she was doing the spiritual guru sort of thing after that job.
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